Dating outside your marriage

I am one who believes monogamy can be fulfilling and successful.

They are both incredibly lovely, exciting, intelligent, kind, sexy people. I am very aware of how strange I feel when people I know (but with whom I don't discuss my personal life) see me with a partner who is not my husband.

Finally, people tend to get into the same kind of relationship over and over again, but affairs are different—according to Formica they often are "a more authentic barometer for what we actually need in our relationships."Right about now you're probably thinking the affair itself or its potential painful consequences (for the betrayed, children involved, etc.).

But, as I often say, everything is material for change. Or is the damage wrought by cheating too harmful to ever be good?

A recent dinner with a past acquaintance has brought me to a place where I now know a conversation on why-I-even-dressed-up-for-a-dinner-with-a-man-I-had-no-idea-was-married-until-we-were-well-into-dessert is very much needed.

I am a 40-something single woman interested in dating single, heterosexual men yet lately I seem to meet more than the usual of those who are Dating While Married (DWM).

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