Dating and relationships in the bible
We should date for fun, friendship, personality development and selection of a mate, not to be popular or for security.Don't allow peer pressure to force you into dating situations that are not appropriate.In fact, I have to chuckle to myself whenever someone asks me to give a “biblical” perspective on dating.
We often hear complaints from readers about the confusion, hurt and sexual sin they've encountered despite their best intentions.Does the fact that the Bible has nothing explicit to say about dating mean that it has nothing practical or authoritative to us about how to conduct a dating relationship?To borrow a favorite phrase of the apostle Paul, by no means!(For instance, the story of Jacob and Rachel doesn't stand for the idea that seven years is the right length of time for a dating relationship — or that polygamy is OK!And the story of Ruth and Boaz is not an example of a woman "initiating" the equivalent of a modern dating relationship.) So where does all that leave us?